Son very defiant, was ******** an appropriate punishment?
Written by admin on May 3, 2010 – 9:57 pm -
My son entered into a habit of entering the familiar things that should not be supposed to enter. Today is gone and that he was trying to get in my gun cabinet that of husbands. Yes, stays locked dell'armadietto and guns have downloaded. I have interfered and told him not to do that and threw a measure. Shouting and screaming and me just be very very disrespectful. Then, he gave all'armadietto kick the gun and broke the glass. My husband has this eavesdrop and came into the room. The first thing is we sent our son to his room, so all we could cool off. Then it was called in the hall where we had a long discussion about obeying the rules and respect. As punishment for the trick or treating was canceled tonight for him. My husband then told my son to come with him. I was kind of surprised and I asked him if he were going to *****. My husband had interfered soon all'armadietto round two days of gun and warned it would be ******** if still got around them and was very disrespectful. My husband took him to his room and had a long conversation. Then I hear the dreaded sound of Adam get ********. I agree with ******** as was promised, but I think that it was double punishment. Think you were the ******** appropriate? He has six years
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By Liz on May 3, 2010 | Reply
Sounds like I was warned that it would be ******** if he went near all'armadietto. He went near it anyway. You can 't make the least threat to your kids, or do not comply with ever. That is, don 't say anything you don' t mean So yes, in this case, the ******** was allowed. I don 't' think that it was double punishment. He has done more than just go near all'armadietto, was disrespectful and broke the glass.
By DrChubby on May 5, 2010 | Reply
I am one of those who believe that corporal punishment is sometimes required. I think that is the last line of defense so to speak and should be used only to illustrate the most crucial concerns. If used continuously, it becomes insignificant and just cruel. I 'the VE has obtained the two sons, 11 and 9 and I' the VE has had to ***** just once either. They have not done anything that requires something that severe over the years. I believe that there are some situations in life where time calm and toys and take away privileges is not a lesson taught a. In life there is much more serious consequences for some actions, saying that they just can 't play your wii for a few days and I think that children sometimes have to learn that in a sense more valuable. Again, I know that the idea of injury to your child with a ******** is repugnant to some parents but let 's face … you need some lessons. Attacked the fire in your hand, you get a burn. Drive a bike too fast you fall and get the erasures. Drunk driving you could get someone killed. For children and many people, the lesson is not taught until there is a consequence and a cause drastic, logic and debate is not always the solution. It 'the thin line S.A.
By jeffrey g on May 9, 2010 | Reply
would i made thee one or other or if it is to use a limit that allowence and his money to pay off the damage
By Just Tryin' 2 B Me! on May 12, 2010 | Reply
Not *****? ever right! Teach children that it 's approval to be hit when someone does something you don' t Gradica! Removing favorite toys, games and favors good facilities!
By Bandit on May 13, 2010 | Reply
I shoud of ******** happened when he broke the glass immediately. The punishment for disobeying Next is another matter. The child has hurt a lot and have allowed him to work only in punishing him for one of them. Sometimes, you have to remember that kids are not born fully mature. We have to take decisions for them and guide them in making their decisions as appropriate to develop. You can not let a child work piled on a street for example. Tell them that and then if they do, you behave immediately! Then removed a toy for a while as punishment. You have left to do something dangerous and you have not done anything off. Can not let that happen again. It 's time for you and your husband are seated and have decided how you want to be as parents. You can 't be the "good guy" and he "the guy" defective;. You are not policemen, you must behave nell'unisono continuously. The consistency is very necessary.
By Manga Panda on May 15, 2010 | Reply
I don 't usually is in agreement with the children who are ******** but I can see where it works here. Nell'armadietto and broke the gun could kill her, I 'M surprised nobody has mentioned this out so far. After hearing the horror stories on the news about kids who are shooting randomly. I think it 's better that remains from the guns.
By Robert on May 17, 2010 | Reply
> the sound of Adam feared that gets ********. What was so terrible? I 'm. believes that suspect that Adam 's mother was tipping that Adam was! > I agree with ******** as was promised, Do you agree with it? But in your "following; breath" questioned him! > but I think it was double punishment. As there was "double punishment"? It was sent to his room; He was called from his room; He had a long discussion She lost her trick or treating this year … mom probably sees that still gets the candy He had another long conversation His dad gave him some smacks his hand on Adam 'part of s. > Think you were the ******** appropriate? Yes, it could be a "tip; much" probably would get the ******** soon after he broke the glass (or even before). A ******** and then a "grounded" at home for the evening. But not inappropriate, what with the guns and all that is involved.
By Aslan on May 17, 2010 | Reply
yes I think it is appropriate ***** was banned from trick or treatment because of what did and being rude and disrespectful (you don 't want that the attitude that runs around the cap to your face) the ******** for breaking dell'armadietto (pain along the bottom to get it repaired and then a pain in the part which is managed) not a double punishment but 2 punishments for acts of disobedience 2 I think 6 years is the right time to take iron attitudes like that out - never ceases to be amazed at quant0 parents constantly make the justification for that kind of behavior until they hit their teenage years and then complain that 'Chamfer do something with them' sounds like between the 2 of you - are doing a good job teaching your child right from the wrong
By styree on May 19, 2010 | Reply
Miss Cara Yes, the punishment was appropriate because he was told repeatedly not to go near all'armadietto the gun and after that you had said not to I think you should ***** and then let his father know the two reasons why it made her one were to posterior communicating and analyzing of you and two for the breaking of glass sull'armadietto I think your husband should go out and buy that thing called a gun safe. resembles a normal and safe has a combination lock and also ends with a key and it is all so safe and the fire once it is locked you are only your husband can get in it because everything is still the locker STAINLESS please go a and the person will help you find one in your price range from $ 4000.00 to 6.99.00 which have no the close of ten guns and 24 pistols to be protected by fire there is no reason for a wooden cabinet gun is to be cut glass, I miss read the question sull'armadietto the gun so I called my brother and ask him what was that his children might not ever come in and said the gun safe I think that this matter was time to examine all the family 's current security
By Savannah U on May 20, 2010 | Reply
Diavoli yeah! warned you not to do so
By Sydney L on May 23, 2010 | Reply
I think the ******** was a promise and should be given and I think that does not get the candy has been even more of a punishment for helping to sink inside. I think we have done everything correctly and not have done over the punishment.
By GrnEyes on May 24, 2010 | Reply
This does not appear unappropriate, particularly in light of the circumstances - 6 years who try to enter repeatedly nell'armadietto the gun! It 's a very good husband that you gave him an initial warning and there was also the consequences (ie no trick or treat). Since your child is not only disobeying but it 'also obtained irreverent; s important to teach him a lesson both as serious is that obedience to both you and your husband but also learn that respect. I think from what you have written here that you and your husband are a good team and continued with what you said to your child. It can be tough but discipline (which really means' to teach ') is important. You may want to explore the possibility of moving the cabinet because of the gun also has such great interest. : 0)
By Krawrys on May 26, 2010 | Reply
That was appropriate. The words are only going to scare all the time, he 'll finally on the accustoms both that just cry out to him and quell'essere at the end of it. My cousin who has 2 years is not never been hit, but he runs around like the own the place and everything. He 's rude, hits people, he throws a huge fad when he doesn' t get what it wants and his parents make is to increase their voice a little. Of course, just cries and cries even more, since it is two, he 's not afraid of them or their words. I think ******** should be dismissed immediately after the glass, cut it particularly, and then be sent to his room, and THEN be told why it was explained that ******** and what did was very wrong. Every time you scream strongly to my cousin so scared because he 's used the people that he screams after a minute or so I go back to him, made him sit on my lap and I' ll explain the to him because I screamed .
By Nikolivich on May 26, 2010 | Reply
if it were my son. . i that he would go trick or treating and then have the following afternoon ********.
By timelady on May 27, 2010 | Reply
Jesus Christ, lady, get the guns from your home. Have six years. Your husband has said that he was going to *****. The worse thing you could do is not to follow through. I don 't usually forgives the ******** but since the affair was original and because it involves something dangerous as guns, I would say that it was suitable.
By Vicky on May 27, 2010 | Reply
Of course it was, unless of course was too hard of a spanking, but I doubt you've been writing in this regard if it were. If it were just the lean identification dell'armadietto pi? to a punishment only, but since he has broken from rabies. The ********? been earned.
By Destiny'sDream on May 28, 2010 | Reply
No it was not appopriate. Not c'sarebbe was no trick or treat more than enough. Poor child.
By Mark M on May 28, 2010 | Reply
S?, My parents would take away my shirt and hit him with a belt.
By Debbie K on May 31, 2010 | Reply
I find that a ******** coupled with the limitation of a privilege to be the most effective way to punish my son for his bad behavior. So no, I think what you did was necessary and appropriate and not a double punishment.
By ford on Jun 1, 2010 | Reply
How old? your child? Not to *****? any goods, much less stop their whims. deploying him in good ways? a long process. where now? stubborn, it 'll the time so that the calls? achieves its legal documents. not just to remind him to stop his crimes and how to correct them. Remember, a green mango will not get? no matter how mature the trapped. takes time.